sep. - Join Date: 01/26/ | Posts: 9. I have had my share of tantra massages over the years from both male and females. In both situations, nothing sexual has ever happened or implied. I do have to admit that with a male therapist, the options of being in underwear, draped or nude without draping was offered. aug. - the guy I am dating told me he used to go to have tantric massage sessions in some place (including ejaculating!!) and that he stopped doing that now. I want to ask her these things and am curious if she has ever got really sensual with a client etc. but don't want to come off as emya-mentoring.eu it is genuine . i dated a masseuse for 4 years almost never got massages.. got sexy multiple times a day though, and BJs whenever. she just never liked to give Barney the dinosaur now runs a tantric sex business.